Cheating: Jumping in and Catching Up

by - June 09, 2012

So I decide nearly too late that I'm in.

Why not? I haven't had much else to say around here lately, so why not? Why not take a prescribed plan that starts with a bold declaration of who you are and declare it loud, strong, and sure with a period at the end?

I'm not feeling very declarative lately, and it's eating at me. And the longer I don't get back to opening my mouth, the more it messes with my head.

I wrote this declaration once before, inspired by Billy Coffey that time. It was even called Wanna Be.

I'm reposting it, because it's still true and I, for one, need to hear it again.

The irony is that it's the eve of a writers retreat for me. I feel like a fraud more than a writer, or even a wanna be at the moment.

But, today, I declare it. Again. Anyway. Perhaps I'll take Jeff's advice in You Are a Writer and declare it daily until it feels true. Until I believe it (which happens to be the Day 2 assignment since I'm behind), and then begin to just do it -- again. (You guessed it, Day 3 -- Initiate).

Presently the only thing I have to risk is the silence gathering here and elsewhere I write. So without further adieu, an edited repost (cheat, I know) of my declaration.

Wanna Be

My son's first email address was wannaberockstar@------. It perfectly defined him at the time. He still uses that email address, but he's no longer a wanna be, and he's not a rock star either. What he is is a talented musician with a guitar strapped to his shoulder and a high hope that it will bond to his skin and become a fifth appendage. He's a songwriter, the youngest in our church's praise band, and leader of youth worship and the teen praise team.

Unlike him, I still live at the address -- a wanna be. I wanna be a  writer. I have a generation head-start on my son, and he seems to be more accomplished than his mom. What's his secret?

Could it be that he's confident? And fearless? He looks dead in the eye of the skeptic with a defiant belief in himself and a firm grip on his dreams and  passions. He's undaunted by the fact that he's unorganized and can't seem to hold the details together before they slip past his creativity. He just lets nothing stand in his way. It verges on arrogant, but he's just winsome enough to get away with it. It's audacity (to ransom a word brilliantly taken hostage and branded by, and probably forever married to, President Obama).

And I wanna be that too - except that I'm not. Not wired that way at all. Why do we wanna be and have what is someone else's, discontent with who and how God made us? I'm in my 40s, never having stared boldly back into the eye of my fear and skepticism, a Wanna Be, still. This kind of tenacity flies in the face of the quiet and gentle spirit, the peacemaker, and follower that I am. Those traits disqualify me from passage into the land of Dream Achievers

So I'm still a Wanna Be. I wanna be this because I'm wired with a love of words,  an unused (as of yet) English degree, and an old dream that shimmers still, through the dust it's collected from years of being pushed aside by the urgent.

The gap between my "wanna be" and my "am" is the validation of others and the word someday.

I don't wanna be a wanna be anymore.

I read this today on Billy Coffey's blog:
You are a real writer the moment you put pen to page and soak it with your tears and sweat and dare to share yourself with the world. It is that supreme act of courage that gives your life meaning, not a piece of paper to sign and initial at the bottom.

I qualify -- I am. I have already put pen to pages soaked with tears and sweat and dared to share myself with the world. There may have been no contract or paycheck, and perhaps nobody else has called me a writer.

The defining factor is that I don't see it as an act of courage, I see it as a necessity, as natural as breathing. The difference between courageous and necessary is not a gap but a bridge: from the land of "Wanna Be" to "I Am."
I am a writer.

Saying so feels uncomfortable and wild because I'm wearing the King's mantle of audacity that's flying in the face of this gentle, follower type. But I'm learning tenacity and embracing the inheritance of my Father's genetics. He is, after all, the great I AM.

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  1. I am doing the same challenge... let us encourage each other in the process and begin to believe 'we can do it.'

  2. I guess you got something girl!!!


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